SO GOOD All you need and to re-read as needed! I have bought this book and sent to all my friends needing this book! I thank the friend that told me to get it. It is NOT someone telling their skewed perspective - this is writer works with couples and individuals to actually IMPROVE their lives - not just writing off the struggles to your childhood trauma or reasons that don't actually enable one to PICK RIGHT.... trust her - she KNOWS.

Got me to look at the things in a partner that are really important I liked the exercises, and the information, and the little stories about what people had done. Got me to look at a possible mate in a whole new light. For example, having a great sense of humor is very important to me. Now I know why, but also what type of a sense of humor I really like. I also came to see what attributes really don't matter much to me, and which ones are really important. The book gets you to look at old and new relationships in a new and positive light so that you don't drag old "baggage" into a new relationship, and so that you can see much sooner whether someone is right for you.

Wonderful Book! Tired of being alone and not knowing where to start to solve the problem, since I am in my 70's. Not that outgoing and not into the bar scene. Daphna gives sound practical advise that is easy to follow as long as you are willing to confront your personal situation. I would highly recommend her book to anyone of any age looking for a life partner :)

Outstanding self help book Must reading for one’s personal development and nothing like you would expect, this book is a practical, sane and enlightening explosion of knowledge and understanding into an area of life filled to the brim with skewed information - the area of a lasting love relationship. Get it. Read it.

If I read this when I Goggled how to know if I should stay or leave, this would've saved me the heartache earlier. I didn't want a 'how to date' book where I would need to act a certain way to be liked by someone or to get them hooked. I just wanted to figure out, what are things that I should look for to find out that a person is right for me.I recommend this book to people who are single or in doubts about their current relationship. Do not be afraid that this book will confuse you about your relationship. If you are with the right partner, this will reaffirm it and guide you on how to make it work. If you realize you are with the wrong partner, it will give you the knowledge and strength in order to move on.Chapter 1-11 discusses how to spot Mr./ Ms. Wrong.Chapter 12 onwards discusses how to understand who is your Mr./ Ms. Right. Not literally who, but the traits associated with it. These are a mix of must traits like honest plus a guide to help you understand the traits that you would want.I had just ended a toxic relationship and I wish I had Chapter 1-11 sooner as it is a good wake up call. It reaffirmed what I thought. I wish I read this when I was trying to figure out if we should break up or not! If Google gave me this book as an answer to my questions, I would have ended that relationship sooner. These chapters revolved heavily on cheaters and dishonesty. If it is a bit too tiring and redundant for you, I recommend that you go straight to Chapter 12 and come back to it later. I guess I just prefer reading who is Mr. Right first (to reassure myself that I bought the right book to continue reading) and then who is Mr. Wrong (because at first, I thought, is this all about Mr. Wrong because that is not what I'm looking for).Chapter 12 onwards gave me great clarity on who I should date. I love lists! I love the exercises. I love the simplicity of the book and how to exercises embed the teachings deeper. The most helpful list and information for me is the 'Three Vital Rules'.

Great Book! I just stated to read the book, it is very intersting, I am very excited and already recommend it to others, very useful from the beggining on.Shipping took some time but it did arrive and this is what counts.Thank you very much!

Simple no nonsense look at the world of partners. ... Simple no nonsense look at the world of partners. Clear choices in the start make for clear relationships in the future.

Brilliant Truth! It's amazing when you come across a "how to" book that actually has truth. Daphna's book is filled with it and as you read this truth and look at yourself in relationship, you experience the feeling of truth; absolute relief, happiness and strong interest in the future. All this and more has happened for me in reading this book and has empowered me to step forward in preparing myself for the good work of picking right. Thank you Daphna.

Great self-help book! This is book is very helpful in understanding how to find the right match. A relationship is based on trust, honesty and open communication. Daphna describes in details how to spot red flags on your new relationship before you get into a toxic relationship that will hurt you and lower your confidence as an individual.Never feel that you have to compromise your standards because you feel lonely. When one does that he/she will lose self respect and security.Probation time where you find out who really is your prospect man or woman. The world is full of people and scarcity is not an issue in finding your match. Many positive, encouraging tips and exercises to learn how to achieve a successfull and balance relationship.Thank you Daphna!

Great book for picking a partner Great book for picking a partner. Written so it's easy to read and apply to your own life or to help anotherwith theirs. Every so often there are exercises you can do so that you can really use the data.The book has made me think of relationships in a different way - as a creation for a future life of fun and happiness that you can be totally the creator of rather than just something that happens that you make the best of.