Why Marrying For Love Is A Mistake
We all want love. So much so, we may “look for love in all the wrong places.” But the emotion called “love” is what we use as the test of whom we should marry. Marrying for love is a mistake, and that’s why I wrote Picking Right: The Single’s Guide to Finding the Right Match. […]
How To Know If He/She Is Your Soul Mate
There is a lot of talk about “soul mates” and some of it is confusing and even untrue. That’s why I’ve chosen to tackle this subject early in this series. You may have known two people who seemed like perfect soul mates (or you may have been in such a relationship yourself) until… everything fell […]
Are You Wasting Yourself On The Wrong Person?
Moms don’t like to see their daughters (or sons) unhappy in their relationships. That was the reason one mom bought my book PICKING RIGHT: The Single’s Guide to Finding the Right Match. Her daughter had been dating a guy who treated her indifferently. And while adult children may not listen to their parents, they might […]
Working Yourself Out Of A Job
“You have worked yourself out of a job,” said my client, thinking I’d be upset at the loss of business. “That was my intention,” I replied. “In fact,” I reminded him, “I have now worked myself out of a job with you twice: – first we fixed your marriage [in six months and under twenty […]
A Relationship Mistake You Must Avoid
If you want to ruin someone, deny them the right to help. Couples, friends, parents and children, make the mistake of “never needing help” or “not wanting to impose.” This can be extremely harmful to the relationship. I was talking to a young man recently, who was overwhelmed with a sense of indebtedness to his […]
Putting Past Relationships Behind You & Finding The Right Match
I received this from one of my readers, describing how he’d used PICKING RIGHT – The Single’s Guide to Finding the Right Match, to find his match, at last! I did the exercises in your book – each one in sequence. At the end I had ended all attention on past relationships. That was amazing! […]
Halle Berry’s Divorce – Will Your Relationship Expire?
According to a “source” quoted by People Magazine, Halle Berry and Olivier Martinez’s relationship “had run its course,” leading to divorce. This implies that relationships have an expiration date. They do NOT! They do not fizzle out for no reason. There are only two reasons for relationship failure: (1) Picking the wrong partner: They were […]
Are You Afraid To Be Yourself? Listen To Dr. Seuss!
What outraged me about the article was not that sorority members are raped at an astonishing rate; nor the evidence of some fraternities’ criminal conduct and sororities’ submission to it. Evidently, college women who wish to be part of sororities, are pressured to put themselves in risky situations that often lead to sexual violence, aided […]
If It Isn’t Right, Don’t Even Sample It!
“I knew he wasn’t right for me, but I wanted to get to know him anyway. Unfortunately, our relationship isn’t working out, but now I like him!” said the thirty-five-year-old single woman. I say, if it isn’t right for you, don’t even sample it! Suppose you are at a buffet. You are diabetic and have […]